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A blog for parents who want to support their child with their experiences of anxiety.


"Who's a good girl/boy...?"
"Good girl, you did it!" "Wow, you are such a good boy for eating all your veggies!" Does this sound familiar? Did your parents say this...
Megan Stapelberg
May 22, 20232 min read


Radical acceptance: A skill for radical shifts!
We all have faced (and will most likely again) face challenging circumstances that we did not anticipate and could not control. These...
Megan Stapelberg
May 8, 20232 min read


The Personalisation & Blame Game
Are you someone who (too) easily takes the blame for things happening around you when, in actual fact they are not always because of you?...
Megan Stapelberg
Apr 25, 20232 min read


The gift of gratitude
“When we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change” –Wayne W. Dyer. Have you noticed that when you only choose to...
Megan Stapelberg
Apr 17, 20232 min read


Cultivate happy thoughts!
Here’s a challenge for you: See if you can notice if your thoughts spiral into a string of negative thoughts. Once you’ve noticed it,...
Megan Stapelberg
Apr 3, 20232 min read


Make meditation your mate!
Mindfulness is the new buzz word out there and maybe you have also heard people say that meditation is a wonderful mindfulness practice....
Megan Stapelberg
Mar 20, 20232 min read


When is therapy a good next step?
Therapy is still seen by many as a scary step; and rightly so. It asks of you to face yourself, your challenges, hurt or pain head-on....
Megan Stapelberg
Feb 27, 20232 min read


What rest really is...
What have you been taught about rest? Is it something you do when you are tired, over-worked or burnt out? Do you do it once a year...
Megan Stapelberg
Feb 21, 20232 min read


3 steps to teach children how to set boundaries.
Boundary setting can be hard for us as adults, so how do we teach our children to feel confident in doing this at a young age? See below...
Megan Stapelberg
Feb 10, 20232 min read


The dangers of adultification
"Children should be mature, strong and be able to deal with difficult challenges." "My daughter is 10, she is old enough to know the...
Megan Stapelberg
Jan 31, 20231 min read


3 Myths about setting boundaries
"Setting boundaries means I have to be rude or mean to the other person." "If I set boundaries, it might mean that the other person might...
Megan Stapelberg
Jan 20, 20232 min read


2023: Your year of setting boundaries
I continue to notice how setting boundaries in various spheres of our lives is such an important part of protecting our energy and our...
Megan Stapelberg
Jan 6, 20232 min read


Regulate yourself first!
Picture this: Your 6-year old is furious because they cannot have that cookie before bed-time. They scream and cry and refuse to take no...
Megan Stapelberg
Dec 6, 20222 min read


How to use screen time constructively
We cannot deny that electronic screens are a part of our children's lives, no matter how we look at it. Keeping your child's exposure to...
Megan Stapelberg
Nov 22, 20221 min read


Getting rid of "should" and "must"
How many times have you told your child they "should be able" to do this or that? What are you really communicating to them when using...
Megan Stapelberg
Nov 8, 20222 min read


We are not our thoughts!
Bring the following image to your imagination: You see blue skies with a few fluffy, white clouds floating by. Now, place yourself in...
Megan Stapelberg
Oct 25, 20221 min read


The trap of toxic positivity
Having a positive outlook on life is important in today's world. Many things are happening around us that are concerning, frustrating and...
Megan Stapelberg
Oct 11, 20222 min read


From fixed mindset to growth mindset
American psychologist, Carol Dweck, discovered 30 years ago that what made students succeed at school was their attitude towards failure,...
Megan Stapelberg
Oct 4, 20221 min read


When to consider therapy for your child
Society is making positive strides towards talking more openly about mental health and towards seeking help when needed. Are you, as a...
Megan Stapelberg
Sep 27, 20221 min read


Making friends starts with being friends with myself.
Children (and adults!) need to understand that being their own friend is the first step to being friends with others. How can we be...
Megan Stapelberg
Sep 20, 20222 min read
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